We CAN Do Hard Things - Sarah Coleman

My mother recently handed me this quote on a stickie note – it read: “Do hard things. Strength is produced in affliction.” What is affliction you ask – by definition, something that causes pain or suffering. By thought or feeling, something that is a struggle or difficult in some way. What a concept. Have you ever thought of things this way?! The current state of our world should be a pretty clear example of getting through some pretty hard situations. Parents homeschooling their children and the live/work balance come to mind.

And – we are better because of it. A few thoughts here – more compassionate, more educated, more resilient, stronger, the list goes on.

It is much easier to take the easy way out – I mean, it says it right there – it is easy! I challenge you this month to try and take the harder way and reap ALL the benefits. And, if you are already on board, we applaud YOU. Pick one thing and commit to it.

 A few examples:

1.     Do 10 more burpees at the gym.

2.     Walk up a half-hour early.

3.     Leave your phone at home.

4.     Ask for help.

5.     Have the difficult conversation.

6.     Try something you are afraid of.

7.     Be 100% honest with a friend.

8.     Say NO!

9.     Say YES!

10.  Learn something new.

You get the idea!  Now, here are a few reasons why doing hard things can REALLY benefit your physical and mental health!

When we take the easy way, we often don’t learn anything new about the situation, ourselves, or others. We will not only grow as a person but we will inspire others to do the same.  By challenging ourselves in new ways, we learn what we are capable of physically and mentally. Who doesn’t want that?! In return, we will feel smarter and more valued.

Think about this – sometimes learning something new or honing in on a skill takes time. The beauty of this is that there is knowledge and growth in the process. Trust the process. Let’s look back to the quote at the beginning – Strength is produced in affliction. That’s the point, we get stronger in the face of adversity. In return, we will feel accomplished and happier.

So – go out there and do something DIFFICULT today. We CAN do hard things.